This is a very common problem now a days that kids do a lot
when you try them to sleep at night. I’ve found a great article regarding this and i’m sure you are gonna like this.
by , on Wed Mar 4, 2009 2:03pm PST
4 solutions to get your child to sleep
Problem: Your child gets up repeatedly after you’ve put him to bed, calling, “Mom, I need a glass of water.”
Why it happens: Kids make bedtime curtain calls for many reasons. Preschoolers may be asserting their independence: “You can’t make me stay in bed!” Or they stall because they’re afraid of the dark. The most common reason, though, is that you’ve slipped from a consistent routine you had when they were babies.
How to rest easy: Before-bed routines are important for children of all ages, says Lynn D’Andrea, M.D., director of the Pediatric Sleep Disorders Center at the Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin, in Wauwatosa. “Kids start to think, I’ve done my routine―now it’s bedtime,“ she says.
The evening ritual could be as simple as reading your child a story and wishing him a good night. Another tool is a bedtime pass, a card your child can turn in for one nighttime request. Preschoolers also benefit from rewards (like extra playground time) for staying put.
Problem: Your child is scared―of the boogeyman or even a house fire.
Why it happens: As kids wind down, it’s normal for anxieties to surface. Your preschooler is apt to worry about what lurks in the shadows, while an older child may have relatively realistic fears―of robbers, for instance.
How to rest easy: A night-light to chase away gloom and a few squirts of anti-monster spray (tap water in a specially marked bottle) are often enough to settle down a young one. “These are imaginary fears, so imaginary solutions work well,” says Jodi Mindell, Ph.D., an associate director of the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia Sleep Center and a coauthor of Take Charge of Your Child’s Sleep. Don’t worry about reinforcing anxieties by acknowledging them.
If an older child is a worrier, ban scary movies and books at night. If he frets about intruders or natural disasters, chat with him about these issues well before bedtime. “For example, ask, ‘What would you do if we had a fire?’” says D’Andrea. “Having an escape plan for an emergency could also help him relax.”
Problem: Your child can’t fall asleep, and then it takes a marching band to wake him up in the morning.
Why it happens: Kids can have insomnia for any number of reasons, from drinking caffeinated drinks at night to schoolwork anxiety. But you might also have a night owl in your flock: a child whose internal clock keeps him up.
How to rest easy: Revisit the basics. Make sure your child has a bedtime routine. If you notice that he can’t fall asleep until late (say, after midnight) and sleeps in when allowed to sleep on his own schedule, he may have delayed sleep-phase syndrome, which is more common in teens, notes Judith Owens, M.D., director of the Pediatric Sleep Disorders Clinic at the Hasbro Children’s Hospital, in Providence, and a coauthor (with Jodi Mindell, Ph.D.) of Take Charge of Your Child’s Sleep. This can be tough on both your child and family members who are on more traditional schedules, so ask your doctor for a referral to a sleep specialist. Professionals can help shift your child’s sleep time closer to normal. Other tips:
- Have your child avoid screen time (like the TV and the computer) for at least half an hour before bed.
- Turn down the lights to help his body prepare for sleep. Come morning, open the drapes and turn on the lights. (Bright light can help reset the body clock.)
- Make sure he gets up at a consistent time (although an hour later on weekends is OK) so he’ll be tired at the same time each night.
